Sunday, July 14, 2013

Aku Terima Nikahnya (1)



Assalamualaikum
Salam Ramadhan

Smoga di bulan Ramadhan ini memberi banyak keberkatan kepada kita semua dan kita semua berlumba-lumba untuk mengejar keberkatan yang telah Allah kurniakan di bulan Ramadhan ini.

“Aku Terima Nikahnya” adalah sebuah buku hasil karya Hazrizal Abdul Jamil yang telah disarankan oleh pak cik mia untuk mia membacanya sebagai persediaan diri. Sebenarnya sebelum ini pun mia dah habis baca buku ni tp rasanya tak salah untuk mengulang baca & refresh balik.

So kat sini, mia nak share rumusan or apa yg mia dapat tapi mia akan buat berperingkat- peringkat supaya mia x miss out any knowledge or info and scara ringkas tp hopefully padat sbb mia tahu my beruang x suka baca panjang2. Kalau bg buku suh baca mungkin a few years later bru hbs bca setelah dipaksa... haha.. (*just kidding)

PERKAHWINAN

-      - Tujuan berumah tangga adalah kerana mahu memberi bukan mengharap semata-mata.    
        
      - Tak terlalu memilih pasangan dengan hanya ingin mencari yang terbaik atau sempurna sahaja.    Sebab setelah berkahwin kita hanya akan nampak kekurangan sahaja apabila kt menjangkakan kesempurnaan. Oleh itu,terimalah seseorang itu seadanya. kebaikannya kita syukuri dan kekurangannya kita redhai.
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      -  Kebahagiaan sesuatu rumah tangga terletak pada KUALITI masa bersama keluarga bukan KUANTITI semata-mata.
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     - jauhilah perkara2 maksiat n mungkar sebelum berkahwin sbb Dosa semalam akan menjadi kecurigaan hari ini,esok & selamanya dalam perhubungan suami & isteri.
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        -   Perhubungan lelaki dan perempuan yg terlalu lama dan tidak menyegerakan perkahwinan akan berubah menjadi musuh akibat fitrah perhubungan itu sendiri.
*        Dalam perkahwinan,apabila hubungan teruji, hubungan itu boleh selamat sbb adanya ikatan perkahwinan.
*      Sebaliknya untuk pasangan bercinta,perhubungan itu mudah diputuskan apabila diuji.
*      Tak perlu memulakan hubungan jika dalam jangka masa terdekat tiada kemungkinan untuk melangkah ke alam perkahwinan agar terpelihara dengan mainan cinta.







Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Bear vs Baby Dinasour 2 - Long Distance Relationship



Assalamualaikum…

Salam Ramadhan…
Happy fasting everyone.
So today is 10th of July and this means only 2 months left for semester holiday.

Back to the title that I’ve enlightened above.
“LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP”
Nobody likes long distance relationship either you’re married or not. This is because without understanding and patience even you love your partner so much u guys will have the probability to have misunderstood that could start a fight where could lead for separation. This is why less people would prefer to have this kind of relationship. As it is not easy to have our partner understands us and vice verse.

To be in a relationship or marriage, it is not only about love cos it will need us to be more responsible, understanding, patience and the most important thing is to have more trust on our partner.  
All of it are related with each other as misunderstanding will lead to prejudice that could lessen our trust on our partner and could starts a fight as a results of losing patience from one of it or both.

It is already more than 2 weeks for us to have this kind of relationship. It is not easy. But back to the key point, UNDERSTAND, TRUST and PATIENCE. I do feel sad when we have to go through this kind of relationship but I know this will strengthened us to face all the difficulties in the future. I know u have a lot of responsibility as a son and u are doing ur best. Less meeting, less messaging, less Skype and less phone call doesn’t means less love. It just Allah wants to take care of us and wants us to take care of ourselves  till the right time when I’ll be yours forever.

Then, hopefully this 1 month we could increase our ‘ibadah’, focus on collecting as much as we can his ‘barakah’ in this month and improve ourselves to be a better person. And trying to ‘istiqamah’ even Ramadhan month has ended.

Furthermore, hopefully we can get through this kind of relationship smoothly without any fights or misunderstanding and Allah will smoothen our parents heart to give their permission.Insya'Allah..

Saturday, July 6, 2013

Bear vs Baby dinasour 1 - Someone New

Assalamualaikum...

Now I'm in 2nd week of semester holiday. This would be my last 2 months semester holiday as next year there would be internship and a year after that I guess it would no longer being called semester holiday. At that time Insya'Allah it is my time to find a job while waiting for the convocation ceremony.

After this 2 month, I would be in semester 1 for my 3rd year in Bachelor of Chemical Engineering at UMP.
 I've just finished my 2nd sem of my 2nd year exam last 2 weeks and I've done my best so let's hope for the best results.
Last semester started with a disaster.
This is because my 1st sem result was extremely bad and also with some other personal reasons.
 A few weeks I've been lost controlled of myself and it took some times for me to gain my spirit back.. To be back on track and to be able smile again.


The story began after almost 2 months of 2nd sem started.
 Where I knew this one guy and I've accepted into my life and started to love after he never gave up gaining my love. Despite that, he also showed to me that he's being serious.
 With him, I’ve being able to go through the final exam. The way that I've never done since the 1st year. I was studying really hard(*for me) and really determined to score for that semester. He's being able to be patient with all my up n down.. my moodiness and my stubborn. Whenever I'm down, he would pulled me up...When I'm in the best condition he would always support me.

I've been asking for my mum and my older sister for us to get married while we're studying.
It's quite hard actually...really hard to find the bravery to ask for permission.
So for now, I can only pray that everything will go on easily and smoothly.






Tuesday, February 12, 2013

list trip

1.yong yap,bubu,tok nenek (9/9/2012 - 12/9/2012)
2.gng arong                         
3.jasar,berembun n perdah
4.nuang                                (30/11/2012 - 2/12/2012)
5. korbu n gayong                (9/2/2013 - 11/2/2013)
6. Stong                                (12/4/2013 - 14/4/213)
7. Bukit tabur                       (7/7/2013)

updated until : 7/7/2013

beza list trip n list gunung... it is just my personal record to know which mountains / hills that i've ever been... sbb kalau boleh nk try semua yg ada dlm m'sia ni even x terkira byknya... List trip ni adalah list brapa byk kali trip or event yg mia dah pg... while list mountain adalah list puncak2 yg telah berjaya didaki.. sbb kadang dalam 1 trip kt leh pg 3 or more puncak...

Monday, January 21, 2013

Mount list

1. Mt Yong Yap   (G7)  2,167 meter (7,110 kaki)
2.Mt Bubu             (6,475')
3.Mt Tok Nenek    6,284 feet
4.Mt Jasar              5565 ft
5.Mt Perdah           5173 ft
6.Mt Berembun      6817 ft
7.Mt Arong            898 ft
8.Mt Nuang           4898 ft
9.Mt Irau                6922 feet
10.Mt yellow         5469 ft
11.Mt Pass             5206 ft
12.Mt Korbu (G7)  7162 ft
13.Mt Gayong (G7)  7129 ft
14.Mt Stong              4664 ft
15. Bukit Tabur        1300 ft

updated until 7/7/2013

Monday, March 12, 2012

ANNIVERSARY

DING...DONG....
PON...PON....

This week is my anniversary......
1 MONTH anniversary of me dating with SECOND SEM in UMP.....
muehahaha.....

so....lots of things had happened for this few months..weeks n days....
not really enjoying my self studying at UMP...
not being myself...
not the REAL ME!!!! here...it's so sad here....

you can rarely see my smile,my voice, and also my face here....
the one that always being the noisiest...the happy go lucky one...and hardworking person....it's just not here in UMP

i still can't adapt myself here with this life,this campus, and PAHANG
being with most of my frieds during PASUM....
i realise that was the day that i've been talked soooo FD much sich entering degree life...

they are sooo funny....soo caring...soo sweet....sooo kuang asam....
n they know me n care a lot bout me....

i've been able to forget what i am now...what i've been doing....all the sadness...
the frustrated feelings....all those stressfull things.... and things that breaking my heart...

i become the old me for a few days....n i really miss that MIA

really2 miss them sooooo muchhhh....

p/s: frequently ask question

1. miaaaa x der sesapa ker???? x kan single lag....??

2. best ump???

Sunday, February 12, 2012

SEMESTER 2 ( 2/8 )

Assalamualaikum....
lama dah x update....
mia malas lah....lgpun x der saper kesah pun an...hehehe....
this blog just for fun...
nak luahkan perasaan,bercakap dengan diri sendiri dan muhasabah diri....

sooooo....
esok dah start SEMESTER 2
pe citer result sem 1????
for me not so good and also no so bad...
tuk org lain teruk kot...tapi tuk mia...dah cukup bersyukur dah ngn rezeki yg dapat tu
Alhamdulillah...x der fail
so x der lah kena repeat paper.....


okkk...back to the main topic
semester 2 dah start
19 jam kredit tuk sem 2
maximum jam kredit tuk student
sem ni akan sgt2 busy
nk kumpul merit tuk duk kolej lagi...
n nak start join kokurikulum pulak selain studyyyy....

sem 1 dah bermalas-malasan
so sem 2 lah pulak nak kena work harder n smarter
x nak duk membazir2 duit....bazir2 masa....
masa itu emas...so setiap sgt tu sgt berharga....kuang2...
semangat sem baru ni...hehehe

p/s: janji harus ditepati....chaiyok2 mia....dean's list sem 2
insya'allah....nothing is impossible