Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Bear vs Baby Dinasour 2 - Long Distance Relationship



Assalamualaikum…

Salam Ramadhan…
Happy fasting everyone.
So today is 10th of July and this means only 2 months left for semester holiday.

Back to the title that I’ve enlightened above.
“LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP”
Nobody likes long distance relationship either you’re married or not. This is because without understanding and patience even you love your partner so much u guys will have the probability to have misunderstood that could start a fight where could lead for separation. This is why less people would prefer to have this kind of relationship. As it is not easy to have our partner understands us and vice verse.

To be in a relationship or marriage, it is not only about love cos it will need us to be more responsible, understanding, patience and the most important thing is to have more trust on our partner.  
All of it are related with each other as misunderstanding will lead to prejudice that could lessen our trust on our partner and could starts a fight as a results of losing patience from one of it or both.

It is already more than 2 weeks for us to have this kind of relationship. It is not easy. But back to the key point, UNDERSTAND, TRUST and PATIENCE. I do feel sad when we have to go through this kind of relationship but I know this will strengthened us to face all the difficulties in the future. I know u have a lot of responsibility as a son and u are doing ur best. Less meeting, less messaging, less Skype and less phone call doesn’t means less love. It just Allah wants to take care of us and wants us to take care of ourselves  till the right time when I’ll be yours forever.

Then, hopefully this 1 month we could increase our ‘ibadah’, focus on collecting as much as we can his ‘barakah’ in this month and improve ourselves to be a better person. And trying to ‘istiqamah’ even Ramadhan month has ended.

Furthermore, hopefully we can get through this kind of relationship smoothly without any fights or misunderstanding and Allah will smoothen our parents heart to give their permission.Insya'Allah..

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